11.05.23 Thursday Doors and a lot to be thankful for

This week, I have another set of doors from Morocco, sent to me by my sister, during her visit to the exotic destination.

If you notice the third door and the ones I put in my previous post, many doors have two knockers- one for the men and the other for the women. Each makes a different sound, allowing the people in the house to know if a woman can answer the door or not. Also, in the door to the left, you can see a smaller and a larger door in the same door. The larger door would be opened for special occasions and to allow animals like mules, horses or camels to enter.

Many of the doors in Morocco have a Moorish design. The Moors were a certain group of Muslims who lived in Sicily and the Iberian peninsula during the Middle Ages (from my research on the net). The design involves an arch and rich carving. Blue is a common colour used in Morocco. You see it on doors, tiles and walls. Apparently, Morocco is a door lover’s paradise. There are doors everywhere. You don’t need to hunt around to find beautiful doors. I have just these pictures, however, as I reminded my sister that I needed door pictures towards the fag end of her trip.

This is all I have this week. If you would like to see doors from all over the world, you can check Dan’s site. Dan hosts the ‘Thursday Doors’ challenge.

I’m also linking this post to ‘Thankful Thursdays’. I realize how important it is to write these posts. It’s so easy to forget all the good that’s happened and focus on the bad. That’s just how, we, human beings are wired, and it requires a conscious attempt like listing all the things that one is grateful for, to remind ourselves that it’s not all bad or that it’s not that bad as our melodramatic brain seems to suggest.

Until I began writing this post, I believed the week wasn’t great. All I remembered was how anxious I had been over the last two days. I had been worrying about a lot of things, which, now seem insignificant in hindsight, like how I should get my book to those who would enjoy reading this genre and how to get those who read the book to write a review. This has to be a debut writer’s worst nightmare and it was mine, too, until this morning. I had an epiphany. It struck me like a bolt of lightning and I was flooded with gratitude. Thank God, better sense prevailed. I realized I was wasting precious days worrying unnecessarily about things beyond my control. I felt like a load had been lifted off my chest. As the sun was still in hiding, I continued to lie in bed. I was scared that the positive feeling was temporary and would disappear the moment my feet touched the floor. But, it didn’t. It stayed and it ballooned as the day passed. I feel thankful for my husband, children, family, home, friends, another day of life, and the ability to wake up and do the things I want to. It’s funny how aware I am of the importance of gratitude and mindfulness and all of that and yet the past few days I let it all slip to the background and allowed little irritants to come to the fore.

Well, here’s all the things that happened during the last week that I am thankful for. I’m grateful to Colleen for her Meet the Poet post where she featured me and shared her review of my book. The care that went into putting together the post is obvious because I only answered Colleen’s questions. She did everything else. I’m also thankful to Manja, for her lovely review, which I’ve shared alongside. It gave me a reason to smile.

Also, a close friend’s divorce ( after a long, difficult marriage) finally came through. She’s finally free.

In addition to all of this, I met a wonderful group of women through a Meetup group. We connected over our love for travel, books and small, meaningful groups.

I’m shocked that I had forgotten all about how good I felt after meeting them. Instead, before I wrote this post, all I could think about was how irritated I had been during the week- about something someone had said to me or had not done for me.
Finally, I’m grateful for ‘Thankful Thursdays’ and the opportunity to write this post.

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17 responses to “11.05.23 Thursday Doors and a lot to be thankful for”

  1. Pooja G Avatar

    Really loved the doors. I’ve always wanted to visit Morocco but never had the chance. It seems like a really interesting place.

    1. Smitha V Avatar

      Thanks, Pooja, for writing back. It does seem like an interesting, mysterious place. I, too, hope to visit it some day.

      1. Pooja G Avatar

        Fingers crossed we’ll both visit someday.

  2. Manja Maksimovič Avatar

    Dear Smitha, I’m so glad that I came to check if there were more Moroccan doors, since I didn’t get the pingback (because you link to my Thursday Doors as a tag, not a specific post, but it’s okay this way). I’m also really pleased that you are happy with the review, and that you had a good realisation, that people are free, and lastly, that I get to see more wonderful Moroccan doors. I never knew about two knockers. I applaud you for everything that you’re doing about your novel now that it’s out. It’s subdued but penetrating, necessary and not annoying, beautiful and loving, just like the novel itself. Wishing you well, and thank you.

    1. Smitha V Avatar

      I’m so glad you checked. I thought I had put the right link (why do I get it wrong always🤦‍♀️).
      Your review is beautiful and I’m so glad you enjoyed reading the book. I wish readers were like you and they read and wrote a review immediately. But, one has to be patient, I realized. Thank you for encouraging and for your kindness. I’m relieved you don’t think it annoying.
      I was surprised about the 2 knockers, too. Haven’t seen it elsewhere. Love the work around the doors. It’s so rich, isn’t it?
      Wishing you well, too. Hugs, Manja.

  3. Mick Canning Avatar

    Great review and superb doors!

  4. robbiesinspiration Avatar

    Hi Smitha, congratulations on the review. The pictures of the doors are lovely. Are women not allowed to open the door to men in Morocco. I havn’t heard of anything like that before.

  5. Dan Antion Avatar

    I like these doors, and I appreciate your sharing your story from this week. Sometimes we forget to look at the good things.

    1. Smitha V Avatar

      Thank you, Dan. I’m glad you liked the doors, though the pictures aren’t too great. Close ups would have been better.

      Yes, it’s so easy to overlook the good and keep thinking about the bad. Writing this weekly post helps with remembering.

      1. Dan Antion Avatar

        The thing I like about blogging in general and this challenge in particular is the sharing of beautiful buildings from around the world.

        1. Smitha V Avatar

          Yes, we get to learn so much. I like that.

  6. rajkkhoja Avatar
    rajkkhoja

    So wonderful door design. Nice colour of blue. I like that door lady & man entr the big door.
    Nice book review shared.

    1. Smitha V Avatar

      Thank you. I appreciate you taking the time to read the post.

      1. rajkkhoja Avatar
        rajkkhoja

        I always read your post on comment.
        Thanks, Smitha 👍

        1. Smitha V Avatar

          You do. Thank you again 🙂

  7. Cheryl, Gulf Coast Poet Avatar

    Smitha, Beautiful review! The doors are gorgeous, and the background information you provided is fascinating! Great post! <3 <3 <3

    1. Smitha V Avatar

      Thank you so much, Cheryl, for taking your time to read the post. Yes, I loved Manja’s review.
      The doors are magnificent in Morocco. I’m glad you liked them. Thank you again❤️❤️🙂

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